Friday of the Thirtieth Week in Ordinary Time
Jesus’ actions in today’s Gospel remind us to consider what is of true value in this life. Despite the cultural rules and societal norms, he does what is needed in order to care for someone else. I have a deep appreciation for rules and tradition. We talk with our children often about the purpose of the rules set in place to keep everyone safe; rules can create a fair and fun environment for everyone; they help maintain order and predictability. Most laws are created with a specific purpose and with good intention. However, sometimes there are situations where rules can be circumvented by greater needs. A simple example is a rescue squad having the right of way in all matters of traffic when rushing a person to the hospital. The health and well-being of the person in the back of the ambulance matters much more than the errand that I am running. Jesus’ words and actions today call on us to consider the question, “what matters most?”
When it comes to the law, Jesus makes it clear that all law is subordinate to the one great law: that we are to love God and love others. He asks, “Who among you, if your son or ox falls into a cistern, would not immediately pull him out on the Sabbath day?” Not me...can you imagine? As a parent, I cannot fathom ignoring the needs of my kids (that is, needs that impact their well-being). Kindness and compassion move us to action. Christ calls us to be present to others. The last couple of months have been tumultuous for many of my friends, family, and colleagues. I have attended far too many funerals lately. My Uncle Jim died most recently and this week I made the trip up to Wisconsin to be with my aunts and cousins—to be present in their grief, share in their sorrow, and celebrate his life. There are reasons that I could have said no to going—I have a lot going on at work; it’s a long trip. But what matters most? It mattered for me to be there, to pray for my uncle, to cantor for the funeral, to share in the love of God.
May we continue to consider our presence in the lives of others. Perhaps we can take time this weekend to reach out to someone who needs our presence: write a letter of gratitude, call an old friend, post something encouraging on social media, or hold a prayer in our hearts for someone struggling. Lord, may I honor you in my work and in my rest and in the way I treat my neighbor. Fill me with your love and keep me free from a critical and intolerant spirit that I may seek the good of others in all situations and at all times.
Peace,
Brandon Meyer